Dominant in sex is a partner who ismain. He leads and dominates. The concept came to us from such a sexual current as BDSM. A person who needs domination over him, in this sexual practice is called a submissive.
BDSM is a subculture that belongs to the genus of psychosexuals. Here there are erotic authority, games with submission and domination.
The abbreviation BDSM stands for:
The main principles of BDSM:
This is reflected in the abbreviation SSC, which is in the slang current:
In many, BDSM is associated with pain and humiliation,But it is not always the case. For example, fans of databases (bandage and dominance) like handcuffs and bindings with ropes, that is, full or partial restriction of the partner's mobility dominant in sex.
BDSM also includes role-playing games based on upbringing. For example: the general brings up a recruit girl, a strict teacher punishes the student, the dean wants to expel the student.
CM (sadomasochism) is a practice associated with causing pain. SM fans practice the use of hot wax, lashes, objects, shocking, and other things that cause voluptuous agony.
Psychologists say that the desire to obeyhas genetic roots. In ancient times, everyday life was associated with constant dangers. The organism of primitive people has got used to constant allocation of a hormone of stress - adrenaline. Times have changed, and those who have a genetic memory stronger, fill the need through the thrill of sex.
Partners can change roles in sexual games. Dominant in sex can be a man, and a sabom - a woman. Then they can change roles. The dominant must have certain qualities.
He can be trusted. Since the submissive completely surrenders to the hands of the master, there must be complete trust between the pair.
Self-confident. The dominant must have a strong sense ofown dignity. He knows his own worth, faith in himself must be unshakable. If in the depths of the soul the dominant is actually weak and does not believe in itself, then in time it will begin to assert itself at the expense of the saba, which is very bad. In this case, the dominant will not allow the partner who obeys him to develop.
Wisdom. A person who tries on the dominantrole, should be prepared for the fact that he will have to solve not only his problems, but also the Saba. Wisdom is the ability to apply knowledge to solve specific problems.
Self-control. A dominant must have a strong nervous system. If you do not want to, being in the role of Saba, with disobedience to see hysterics with the beat of utensils and ingratiating whining, then make sure that the partner has a strong inner core. Even worse, if the gentleman has an unstable psyche, and he "accidentally" breaks you several ribs.
Ability to speak and listen. BDSM-practice implies constant communicationpartners. Dominant should listen to the subordinate, at least not to skip the stop words. They are used to stop the lord in time, if something went wrong.
Many men in the soul of hunters, theysubconsciously look at the woman as a prey. Remember at least how they like to look at girls in heels. Female caviar on his heel is tense, and the leg resembles the fineness of a horse, roe deer, and goat. That is, the animal, on which you can ride and which you can hunt.
Male dominant in sex - it's verya common option, but practice it like any other version of BDSM, only if both partners agree. After all, submission in sex is a sign of trust and respect. The partner agrees with the male superiority, and thus she shows her defenselessness. Submissive is completely given in the hands of the dominant. Male-upper it is incredibly winds, I want to take a woman imperiously, and then press me to him, warm and fall asleep together.
Domination in sexual relations is not only BDSM practice. Female dominance can be expressed in a more active position, when the lady takes care of everything, and the man plays by her rules.
If you like this style of behavior, thentalk to your partner. Domination is not always a hard BDSM with a whip in leather dress. A female dominant in sex can be dressed in lacy underwear, and instead of handcuffs use silk scarves.
According to statistics, more than 40% of couples in the world practiceBDSM. Moreover, they do it regularly. After all, sexual games with the use of handcuffs or just slaps on the pope during sex - this already applies to the practice of BDSM. Causing real physical pain is practiced by no more than 3% of couples. At the same time, 33% of men like it when a woman dominates in sex, 48% of men like to change roles and only 18% like to be upper. Women prefer submission (75%). Only 25% want to be a lady.
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